I abhor having to debate social issues like gay marriage. The reason why is that I see the bigger picture. I know that just like abortion, and pot smoking and a host of other issues, gay marriage is just another club leftists use to beat down and diminish what Americans consider dear to their hearts, and what has held our country together at the societal seams since the founding. The reason I hate to debate social issues is because the left has people so brainwashed into thinking that they are doing the good and decent thing, that the person you are trying to convince thinks you are way out of line at the very least or outright evil or racist, for having the opposite view in the first place. You end up having to first convince them you are not the devil, then you have to get them to think logically, and finally you can explain to them why you think the way you do. The process is long and very annoying depending on the combativeness of the brainwashed drone. Once you are able to explain why you feel the way you do and the logical reasoning behind how you feel, you can usually at the very least plant a seed in their thought process. It is the journey that is long, arduous, and most of the time futile.

     I first want to make it absolutely clear that I do not hate anyone, let alone gays. I do not wish them ill health or hell or any of a number of vile thoughts that leftists have created and attributed to Conservatives. I feel sorry for gays. I do not believe that there is a "gay gene" and that they are born gay. I believe that the state of being gay was caused by trauma suffered at an early age, particularly in the early developmental years between 2 and 5 yrs of age. This trauma could have been major trauma such as child abuse or sexual abuse or something as common as being yelled at by a parent or beat up by a sibling. Being gay is an acceptance of the feelings the person felt at the time of trauma. What I mean by this is that some people take a smack in the mouth by smacking the other person back or learning how and doing it later. Other people take a smack in the mouth and accept that they will always be smacked in the mouth, therefore they learn to exist and accept being in the bottom castes in their minds. 

     The gay marriage movement has been propagated by gays that have yearned for the feeling of being accepted by everyone. It has to be "marriage" for them because it is not about attaining the same rights, but rather forcing everyone to accept their behavior as normal by law. I have no problem with two people doing what they want as consenting adults and being able to have the same rights legally for insurance, medical, death decisions and property dispersal etc. Two people can do that now legally without being a couple. It cannot be called "marriage" however, and you cannot force people to accept a behavior as normal by getting a law passed.

     Marriage was first established by God and recognized and sanctioned by the church. It is one of the holy sacraments. Governments later had to recognize marriage, and soon after found a way to tax it, ie; Marriage licenses. Marriage licenses are the sole reason government has a say in marriage at all. Some gays do not want gay marriage because they are happy with the niche they have created and do not want the spotlight on them. Gays for the most part are not happy people because of the baggage they carry from childhood, and the deep seeded insecurities they have. They also suffer for the fact that gay relationships never last because two insecure people can never form a solid foundation. Of course there are exceptions and yes lots of straight relationships do not last, but for the most part a gay relationship is fleeting. Individuals that are gay and want this are trying to create a positive in a completely negative atmosphere.

     Gay marriage by law for me would diminish what true marriage is. Marriage is the sacred loving bond between a man and a woman. A gift given to us by God so that we populate the earth and never be lonely without companionship. Gay marriage is not what God and nature intended, otherwise no one would ever be born. I cannot accept gay marriage according to my faith and I resent the fact that government could force me to accept it by law. Also no one ever thinks about the next assault on marriage, which would be polygamy and it is anyone's guess what else could be argued with the same arguments being used to propagate gay marriage.

     Gay marriage exists in 4 states as I write this article. Those states are New Hampshire, Iowa, Vermont and Massachusetts. All of those states were forced to accept gay marriage by law, not by vote but by extreme left politicians and judges. Everytime gay marriage has been put on a ballot in any state by referendum, it has been voted down, every single time. In California, home of the most extreme leftists in our country, the courts ruled in favor of gay marriage. In the next election voters were able to put the question on the ballot to change the Constitution of the State of California in order to stop judges from being able to make it legal again.

     "How does this have anything to do with politics?" Let me explain. Leftists love gay marriage because it is another way of destroying the foundations of society. If you read one of my first articles here "The Hardened Leftist" I explain that for the leftists in charge of the movement, destroying anything that we would be willing to fight for, will create an equal plane for everyone creating utopia on earth. I do mean everything you would fight for. Leftists want us to get to the point that we care about nothing including religion, family, private property etc. I know it sounds crazy but I am telling you the truth and if you read their own words eg; Saul Alinsky's "Rules For Radicals" and Karl Marx's "The Communist Manifesto" among the many, you see that they are deadly serious and that we must fight them to the end.

     They are also people that were traumatized somehow, but went headfirst into destroying what they deep down want to be accepted by. Actors and singers are the same type of people but they show it in art. All of them have troubled lives. If you look at the history of all of them, leftists, artists and gays, you see troubled lives. Some of them accumulate wealth beyond their wildest dreams and are still miserable and self destructive. Very few of these people could tell you the honest truth and say they were happy.  

     Gay marriage and the reasons it has to be stopped can be explained to the girl in the office that believes that "gays have a right to be happy too". You just have to do it gently and let them know that you want the best for all people including gays, but not to the detriment of what makes the good of society, good.